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Enneagram Type 3 - The Achiever

Enneagram Type 3

Enneagram Type 3 – The Achiever Threes value achievement, results, and recognition and like to do their best. They tend to be ambitious, efficient, highly flexible and adaptable to help them accomplish their goals. Hard working and principled, Three’s can make reliable, devoted parents with the will and energy to be their best. Image-conscious: Maintaining … Read more…

Enneagram Type#2

 Enneagram Type #2 The Giver – The Generous, Supportive Advisor Enneagram Type #2     Twos are warm, caring and welcoming at their core. Twos want to be liked and try to meet the needs of others. They are demonstrative and want to be valued for helping others and being a positive influence.Twos have … Read more…

Enneagram Type #1

Type #1 The Perfectionist – The Reformer The rational, principled, self controlled idealist  Today I will help Enneagram Type #1’s understand their motivation, release the burden of perfection, trust in their goodness and finally relax. Ones are conscientious and ethical, with a strong sense of right and wrong. They are always striving to improve things, … Read more…

Enneagram

Introduction to the Enneagram for moms

Introduction to the Enneagram for moms   The next 9 episodes are designed to help us become saner, wiser, more compassionate, moms and humans. The enneagram types will reveal patterns about how you interpret the world, and the world around you. You will learn what’s holding you back and get tools and tips to feel … Read more…

Clarity

Get Clarity in 2024

Get Clarity in 2024 Mental and emotional clarity is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves but when you are surrounded by other people’s needs, personalities, demands and desires, self clarity is a difficult thing to access.  When we feel clear, we know who we are and what we want. It makes it … Read more…

Caught kid watching porn

Caught kid watching porn | Encore

Episode 157 – Caught kid watching porn | Encore “Dear Torie, I am so upset. I just walked in on my 9 year old son. He was looking at our lap top and shut it as soon as I came in the room. I asked him what he was looking at and he said “nothing”. … Read more…

Annoyed and Irritated?

Annoyed and Irritated? Why that’s important | Encore

 Dear Torie So….my pre-teen just pointed out that every time I have to drive him somewhere, I act annoyed. (which annoyed me). My teenager piggy backed on that saying I’m ALWAYS mad and yelling at her to pick up her things and do her chores. (which irritated me). My partner joined in saying he can’t … Read more…

How do I get my kids to listen to me?

How do I get my kids to listen to me? | Encore

Episode #155 “How do I get my kids to listen to me? | Encore”   Question of the Day: “I feel like I walk around all day barking orders. ‘Pick up your shoes, turn off the TV, finish your homework, clear your plate.” I’m exhausted from the constant negotiating and push back I seem to … Read more…

I can’t get anything done!

I can’t get anything done! – Replay

Episode #154 – I can’t get anything done! – Replay  Question of the Day:  I am thrilled that school is back in session —really I am—but I am gobsmacked at how little time I have for myself. I’ve been holding my breath waiting for all my kids to be in school at the same time … Read more…

10 Powerful Questions

5 Questions every morning to give you clarity and intention.
5 Questions every evening to give you satisfaction and gratitude.

This is the best way to get you in the driver’s seat of your life.